Answer:
What I kept going back to was that if you tie something to a goal, where you want to go, that’s usually a more static place, at least in the short term. Your goals might change, but that goal stays the same. The people, things, and influences tied to that goal are going to change all the time. So, if you tie your happiness to the people that come in and out of your life, or to the things that you have, you might get frustrated, lose your lose your way with, or not feel that you’ve found that happiness. Finding happiness with a goal instead would really help you to live that happier life.
