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There is no worse feeling than when you see someone wasting her talent. She could change her entire life with what she is capable of, but instead of doing that, she just surrounds herself with fears, always choosing the safe way to go.
I know that we want everything right away and if it still doesn't happen after two months or four years we will be already giving it up. Why don't you make up time limits for yourself? Patience. I was writing my blog through four years without any success at all - and to make it reach the format how it is today, I needed five years. But I am happy that I didn't give up. I knew that good things need time to happen. I wasn't afraid to test out what is working and I was willing to fail. The result is talking for itself.
Failing is part of the way. You can not avoid it. Believe me there is no more inspiring story than when somebody fails big but still decides to stand back up. If you find yourself down but you also find the way back up write me immediately, because the thing I am mostly interested about is what can someone get strength out from, what methods are helping for her. Just imagine, if taking other people's stories and your own fails and stand ups you can create a plan, than there is no down point at all that you wouldn't be able to get up from. And if you are down, just check how did other people stand up. Maybe it will help you too.
Accepting anything that is coming - maybe that is the hardest part. I am not telling you to accept that you still have a couple of months staying at the same position you hate that much, but maybe it would be more useful not concentrating on the bad feelings all the time. While you let negativity filling up your days don't wait for reults. Accept that right now you are not able to change the situation and do everything you can the best way. Believe that soon the solution is going to appear too.