Reflection Guide/Lifelong Learning Instructions. Answer the questions posted below. ? Are you familiar with this old adage "Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are”? People judge us the way we do/act or say. Same goes with past tense and past perfect tense if we don't really know its usage and differences we can immediately judge or say that it's simple past tense where in fact its past perfect tense already. How would you avoid this judgment) to happen even if you are with your true friends? Give your friendly tips here to avoid bullying or bashing others' actions or words.